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Blueprint (for us)

Where do we stand, and where are we headed? Where do we stand, and where are we headed? The whole Blueprint method, for about the cost of one date night.*

$149.99$180.00$30 saved

6 months of Pulse Check, free

Your free Pulse Check subscription starts from the moment you support a preorder campaign. If this kit doesn't get funded, you get every cent back, shipping included.

  • The best gift for your future selves
  • Intentional relationships made fun
  • Designed with love
How pre-orders work

This kit goes to production when 300 kits are reserved. If we haven't reached that by November 30, 2026, every order is automatically refunded in full, including any shipping you paid. Once funded, kits ship within 8 weeks of the funding date.

  • Hits its goal, or you're refunded in full
  • Ships within 8 weeks of funding completion

Four kits + a bonus

Four kits, plus six months of Pulse Check, free.

The four kits each answer one question, and each question builds on the one before. Together they run from knowing each other, to planning a life, to holding that plan together when the weather turns.

  1. Mirror, Mirror

    Who are we?

    Capture each other's true essence. Not a physical likeness, but drawings and symbols standing in for what matters most about your partner. Nine reflections guide you through, so you can step outside your usual role and be seen as your whole self.

    60 to 90 min.

  2. Aligning Our Stars

    What does our future hold?

    It's not often we share our life aspirations with our partners in one sitting. Doing so lets you explore what you are both building toward, and unlocks a deep sense of security in your future. Peek into your ideal life, category by category, then lay both versions side by side.

    40 min.

  3. Land Ahoy!

    How will we achieve our goals?

    Many couples struggle to make their dreams a reality. It's not for lack of effort or commitment, but because dividing a complex goal between two adults with different preferences, working styles and strengths is hard in itself. Land Ahoy! is a workshop that makes the planning stage easy.

    60 to 90 min.

  4. Rain or Shine

    Are we ready when trouble comes our way?

    Ten sealed challenges, informed by research, that get progressively harder. What you're practising are the things nobody teaches: calming down once you're already fired up, and hearing what was said rather than what you assumed.

    40 min per challenge. 6 to 8 hours across all ten.

  5. Pulse Check

    How are we actually doing?

    Checking in on a relationship is easy to put off, and awkward for whoever raises it first. You each answer a short check-in on your own, and it comes back as one shared read on where you stand. Backing the Full Bundle includes six months of Pulse Check, covering you both.

    10 min each.

What early couples say

We didn't realize how much we were operating on autopilot until we started Blueprint (for us). It broke us out of the 'dinner and a movie' rut and gave us a reason to start looking at each other again.
Michaela & ErikEarly testers

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